"Dating Tips of Week" December 23, 2013 featuring the latest dating tips for men on how to get more dates, improve your relationships and sex life, experience more love, intimacy, romance and surefire techniques, strategies, and methods on how to successfully score with hot & sexy single women.

Take the example of a man checking his groceries through the checkout. He can talk to the girl about the groceries and neither of them would bat an eyelash. They are both continuing down The Yellow Brick Road.

But if the man says, "You know, you are very pretty," he knows he has left the "Road." He is exposing himself emotionally. He has made himself vulnerable to rejection. Also, the girl will feel challenged by this personal remark from a stranger. She feels sure he will go further than that - probably ask her out. They will both feel a surge of excitement and an increase of tension. He is trying to get her to leave the Yellow Brick Road. He is shaking things up. She will feel inclined to stay on her safe pathway and reject his advance by receiving his compliment coldly. This would be the easy, safe way out, and she could thus avoid any involvement.

But if she was at all interested in the man, she might decide to accept his compliment gracefully and wait to see if he makes another advance. For the man's part, he should realize that the girl might be a little shaken up by his compliment, and may not have accepted it as well as he would have liked, because of momentary embarrassment. He should be patient and continue his advances. Maybe his next move will shake things up more, but it has to be done if he wants to get to know her.

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This example is typical of our attitude to society as a whole, and our personal lives in particular: we tend to resist change. The phrase' 'Better the devil you know than the devil you don't know," and "Leave well enough alone," express this idea.

But realistically, we all know that it is necessary to make changes and improvements, even though we feel more comfortable with things the way they are. We really want both: we like the security, safety and serenity of the familiar past and present, but we crave the excitement and adventure of the uncertain future. A shake up is usually good for us, in most areas of our lives.

The man knew it would be easier to stay on the Yellow Brick Road, but chose to leave it for the excitement of meeting the girl. The girl might also leave the security of the Yellow Brick Road with hopes of a romantic adventure.

It is easier and more comfortable to stay on the Yellow Brick Road, but it is exciting and stimulating to leave it for adventure.