Dear Friends and Subscribers,
Does this describe you?
1. You don't feel you're capable of love because you don't believe that you're good-looking enough, intelligent enough, successful enough, or interesting enough to meet or attract any women.
2. If a woman shows interest in you, you believe yourself to be not worthy of her attention.
These characteristics are classic examples of low self-esteem. And low self-esteem can be a major roadblock to finding and experiencing romance.
In his book The Psychology of Love, the psychotherapist Nathaniel Branden makes an excellent point about low self-esteem: "It has been something of a cliche to observe that, if we do not love ourselves, we cannot love anyone else. This is true enough, but it is only part of the picture. If we do not love ourselves, it is almost impossible to believe fully that we are loved by someone else. It is almost impossible to receive love. No matter what our partner does to show that he or she cares, we do not experience the devotion as convincing because we do not feel lovable to ourselves."
So, to overcome your low self-esteem, you've got to learn to love yourself. It won't be easy in the beginning, but with a lot of practice and emotional support from friends, relatives, etc. you will gain self-confidence with women and experience love and romance.
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Welcome to The Don Diebel Succeed with Women Newsletter - Your source to succeeding with women and filling your life with love, intimacy, and romance. Each weekly issue is dedicated to helping you do better with the opposite sex, get more dates, improve your dating relationships, overcome shyness, and most importantly help you meet, attract, and seduce women. Also, I will keep you up-to-date on the latest methods and techniques to score with women.
We are pleased that many new subscribers have recently joined us for help in scoring with women. For those of you that are new readers, I'd like to introduce myself. I'm Don Diebel, one of the nation's leading experts on dating and relationships, guest speaker on several TV and radio shows, featured in print interviews, dating consultant, and have helped thousands of men win at the game of love with my phenomenal best-sellers, "How to Pick Up Women in Discos," " The Complete Guide to Meeting Women," " 100 Places to Take a Date," The Houston Entertainment and Dating Guide," " How to Pick Up Topless Dancers" and " 1001 Best Pick-Up Lines."
Also, I am President and owner of Gemini Publishing Co. which specializes in books, cassettes, videos, and pheromone products on how to succeed with women since 1978. Our website is located at: http://www.getgirls.com
1) "Dating Tips of the Week" article for meeting, attracting, and seducing women.
2) Four FREE chapters from the best-seller, " A Man's Guide to Women."
3) FREE book on how to select a dating service.
4) Pick-Up Line of the Week
5) Article from our "Dating Tips of the Week Archive" on how to score with women.
6) Enter our contest for a FREE book on succeeding with women.
7) Four FREE chapters from, " The Complete Guide to Meeting Women."
8) New products to help you score with women.
Has this ever happened to you? You just meet this hot & sexy beautiful single woman and you agree to meet for dinner at a local restaurant.
You're all pumped up to see this girl again and you're hoping this meeting will lead to some romance and a potential relationship.
You arrive right on time at the time you both agreed upon. And you're waiting and waiting for her to show up. Ten minutes goes by...then twenty minutes...then thirty minutes.
What should you do? Leave in a fit of anger and never see her again? Call her up later and cuss her out?
Here are my recommendations:
1. Never wait more than 30 minutes for a date to show up.
2. Give her the benefit of the doubt that maybe she has a valid excuse for not showing up such as traffic, sudden illness, emergency at home, problems with her kids, car trouble, etc.
3. Call her the next day and see if she offers an explanation. When you first call, act like nothing happened and let her bring up the subject of your dinner date first. If she offers no explanation, then do not pursue this woman. She may have purposely not showed up because she has no interest in you.
4. You can try another tactic that could make her not feel so bad about not showing up. Just tell her you're sorry you didn't show up for your dinner date because you had a personal issue to take care of. This may be a little white lie, but it takes the pressure off of her. Just reschedule another meeting.
5. Whatever you do, don't call her up and start cussing her out. This serves no purpose and there are some single women out there that enjoy making men upset by standing them up.
I would suggest rescheduling another meeting for dinner. If she doesn't want to, then just take the hint (she's really telling you that she's not interested in you). If she agrees to meet you again and doesn't show up again, then forget about her. Don't let a woman humiliate you twice.
In closing, remember that being stood up is part of the dating game. It happens to everybody. Don't let it get you down. Let it be a lesson...if a single woman stands you up on purpose, then you don't want to be with a woman who is not interested in you anyway.
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PICK-UP LINE OF THE WEEK
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Ask her, "Do you know why your smile reminds me of sunshine?" When
she asks why, you reply, "Because it is so bright and cheery."
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ARTICLE FROM OUR "Dating Tips of the Week ARCHIVE"
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I've discovered a better way to attract women like crazy using the personals. You will run circles around other men answering personal ads of single women. What's the secret? Using voicemail with your ad. Here's how to use this girl-getting system to find love and romance using the personals:
Set up a voicemail account. You will find the companies to do this for you in the yellow pages listed under answering services. Run your personal ad in singles publications, magazines, online, etc. Here's a good example of a personal ad to attract single women like a magnet: Handsome SWM, 38, slender Hare seeking cute little bunny 25-35, romantic and slender to share my carrots with. Call 484-2424 (your voicemail number) to hop all over town and have some good times and have a hare-raising experience. If you like to lay in clover and nibble, a plus.
The women will call your voice mail and will listen to a pre-recorded message by you. Here's a sample script to use for your voicemail message: "I love you darling. How long have you longed to hear these words? How often have longed to be held in a man's arms, to be cuddled, caressed and kissed, warmly, sweetly, and tenderly? Perhaps you are my sweetheart - who knows? My name is Don and I am a one-woman man, writer, author, publisher, 38, 6" 1", 185 lbs., and desire to meet an attractive, loving, affectionate, slender woman 25-35 who is interested in a meaningful relationship. So, if you're tired of what you've had up until now and ready for a 1st class man to come into your life and treat you like a Princess, please leave your phone number at the sound of the beep and I will return your call as soon as possible. Thank you and I look forward to talking to you.
You can also set up a 1-800 voicemail to use for personal ads in national publications and magazines and for online personals. This way the women will be more inclined to call you being that it is a free call. In closing, guys try this better method of using the personals to attract single women like a magnet.
P.S. When making your script for your recorded message, talk in a
very romantic and sexy tone of voice. This will turn the women on!
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MONTHLY CONTEST TO WIN FREE BOOKS
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"Unique Gifts" Contest
Send us the most "unique gifts" to give your date that will melt a woman's heart and make a lasting impression on her. We'll pick the best ones to publish on our web site (we will not publish your name) and award the lucky winner any book listed in our catalog at: http://www.getgirls.com/catalog.htm absolutely FREE! Please send your gift ideas by e-mail to getgirls@getgirls.com or by snail mail to: Attn: Contest Dept., Gemini Publishing Company, 14010 El Camino Real, Suite 200, Houston, TX 77062 (don't forget to include your e-mail address).
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I used the personal ads to meet and seduce hot & sexy beautiful single women from all over the United States. You can too...and to help you do this we are going to be carrying a book in the near future called, "Effective Personal Ads - How to Write and Respond to Personal Ads." Look for it soon!
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