Dear Friends and Subscribers,

Let's talk about winners and losers in the game of love and succeeding with women.

Do you know what the difference is between the guys who are winners and losers? The guys who are winners with women do the things losers don't want to do to take action to meet, attract, and seduce women.

Guys who succeed with women don't just think about it, they take action to meet and attract women. They do what it takes! When they see a woman they are attracted to, they pull the trigger. They don't procrastinate, stall, ponder, or make excuses; they approach her right then and there. They don't put it off.

Always remember that to have that woman you want, you have to do whatever it takes. Also, nothing in your love and sex life will change until you begin to do something about it.

The bottom line is that if you do nothing to meet women, you're going to be a very lonely and frustrated man. That woman of your dreams is not going to just drop out of the sky. You've got to pursue her!

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Welcome to The Don Diebel Succeed with Women Newsletter - Your source to succeeding with women and filling your life with love, intimacy, and romance. Each weekly issue is dedicated to helping you do better with the opposite sex, get more dates, improve your dating relationships, overcome shyness, and most importantly help you meet, attract, and seduce women. Also, I will keep you up-to-date on the latest methods and techniques to score with women.

We are pleased that many new subscribers have recently joined us for help in scoring with women. For those of you that are new readers, I'd like to introduce myself. I'm Don Diebel, one of the nation's leading experts on dating and relationships, guest speaker on several TV and radio shows, featured in print interviews, dating consultant, and have helped thousands of men win at the game of love with my phenomenal best-sellers, "How to Pick Up Women in Discos," " The Complete Guide to Meeting Women," " 100 Places to Take a Date," The Houston Entertainment and Dating Guide," " How to Pick Up Topless Dancers" and " 1001 Best Pick-Up Lines."

Also, I am President and owner of Gemini Publishing Co. which specializes in books, cassettes, videos, and pheromone products on how to succeed with women since 1978. Our website is located at: http://www.getgirls.com

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Are All the Men Who Use Online Personals Desperate, Unattractive, Psychotic, or Nerds?

I've personally known two other guys who've done this and they're okay guys. And I don't think I'm all that bad myself. For example, how many "nerds" or "losers" do you know who practice karate, skydive, ride horses, and own their own businesses?

As for "desperate," well there have been times when I've been desperate for company, but I've had a number of lovers in my lifetime. I've even turned down women who wanted to be with me. I'm a little shy but I've usually done okay.

There are many reasons for a guy to use personal ads:

1. It may be that he can't meet single girls any other way.

2. But it may also be that he's really gorgeous and wants a chance to meet a woman who'll get to know him before finding out what he looks like.

3. It may be that he's shy.

4. It may be that he has a busy career and has no other good way of meeting people.

5. It may be that he's got kids and doesn't have much chance to get out.

6. It may be that he has a hard time finding intelligent single women in his everyday life.

7. Or it may be that he's just trying something like this for the hell of it, just to see what happens.

Basically, there are many good reasons to use personal ads. There's nothing at all weird about a man using something like this. It's just one more way of meeting people, and a pretty good one if you do things right!

This article is reprinted by permission and is Copyright 1995 and 1996 by Dean Esmay.

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PICK-UP LINE OF THE WEEK
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Here's one to use at nightclubs and bars: "See that table over there? (point with your finger), I've been waiting for you to come over and talk to me. Can you join me for a drink and some friendly conversation?"

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ARTICLE FROM OUR "Dating Tips of the Week ARCHIVE"
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Are Long -Distance Relationships With Single Women Worth It?

Here are my experiences with long-distance relationships and why I prefer not to get involved in them:

1. Sooner or later, it's going to occur to the girls that she is missing out on a social life because of a spoken or implied commitment to you. She will subconsciously begin to resent you and trouble will follow.

2. You are probably passing up opportunities for involvement with other single women.

3. You are spending a fortune on phone bills and travel.

This invariably breeds aggravation, frustration, suspicion, anxiety and trouble. All this for a romance with less than favorable odds?

If you do become involved in a long-distance relationship with single women, then follow this advice:

1. Don't forget. Your fidelity does not insure hers. Continue to pursue your social life and sex life. See other single women. Make yourself available.

2. The more intensity there is in the long-distance romance, the higher the likelihood it will burn out. Keep it casual and friendly. Friendships by mail can last a long time and who knows? Someday, circumstances may bring you together. It never hurts to keep your irons in the fire.

3. If necessary, pay her way to visit you. Never travel to where she lives. If you go to where she lives, you lose the home-court advantage. You are in unfamiliar territory around people you don't know, and you are being judged by her family and friends. It is a difficult situation to be in when you're trying to present your best side.

P.S. This article is an excerpt from our best-selling book, "A Man's Guide to Women."

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P.S - I promise that I will never sell or share your e-mail address with anyone!

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