"Dating Tips of Week" February 9, 2015 featuring the latest dating and relationship advice for men on how to get more dates, improve your relationships and sex life, get more love, romance and surefire techniques, strategies, and methods on how to seduce hot & sexy single women.

Don't Be Self-Conscious

Men with a lot of imagination suffer most from self-consciousness. They imagine that everyone within sight is watching them as they try to pick-up a girl in a public place, and that the girl, too, is critical of their every move. So many such men are afraid to try. That is why men of lower intelligence are usually less inhibited, and thus more successful at picking up girls. They don't have as much imagination with which to create fears and inhibitions.

If you have this problem you should realize that most of the people within sight are not watching you. They have their own problems. One or two people, close by, may notice you stop and talk to a girl. But for all they know, you may be asking for directions, or you may know her already. Maybe you know her slightly, and she can't quite remember you. These people do not really know what you are doing; anyway, it is none of their business, so they usually move right on.

There is a psychological point here and if you understand it, you should be better able to cope with self-consciousness. To each of us, our own activities are the focal point of our interest. Our own affairs stand bold and clear in our minds, because we are directly involved and intimately familiar with every detail. The affairs of others are not so clear or well defined, and we are not as interested as we are with our own.

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So when we try to imagine what others think of us, we make the false assumption that they will see us as we see ourselves: clearly and in every detail. But they don't. They do not have the close knowledge or interest in us that we do ourselves.

In the same way ancient men falsely assumed that the world was the center of the universe and that the sun moved around it, simply because the world was the place they knew best, and thus the most important to them.

So, you must realize that other people never are as aware of you, or interested in you, as you are in yourself. Mostly people don't even notice you, even at times when you feel they do. I suppose that most intelligent men know this, but we all tend to forget and lose the significance of it.

This applies to the girl you are approaching also. While you are worrying what the girl is thinking about you, she is most likely thinking more about how she is handling herself in front of you, and whether her hair is combed properly, or if her dress is straight.

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