This week let's talk about what I call the "smothering technique" to turn women off and drive them away from you.

This is how I describe this technique: After first meeting a girl, you call her all the time, sometimes twice or more a day at her work and at home. And when you can't reach her, you get all upset.

You keep thinking to yourself, where in the hell is she? Is she seeing someone else, is she trying to avoid me, has she lost interest in me, etc. You just keep worrying and worrying. When you do get in touch with her you ask her, "Where have you been, I've been trying to get in touch with you!"

And you keep repeating this pattern of calling her all the time to where it reaches the point where you become a pest. She is totally turned off and needs her space and all you are doing is driving her further away from you.

Please, guys don't do this! It's only going to backfire when you try to smoother her. How often should you call? Just call her every other day will be just fine and don't linger on the phone for hours as if you had nothing better to do with your life and your whole world revolves around her. Just keep it brief and say what you have to say. By not calling so often this will make her think about you. She will be wondering what you're doing and she might even wonder why you haven't called and that's good because it gets her to thinking about you.

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Welcome to The Don Diebel Succeed with Women Newsletter - Your source to succeeding with women and filling your life with love, intimacy, and romance. Each weekly issue is dedicated to helping you do better with the opposite sex, get more dates, improve your dating relationships, overcome shyness, and most importantly help you meet, attract, and seduce women. Also, I will keep you up-to-date on the latest methods and techniques to score with women.

We are pleased that many new subscribers have recently joined us for help in scoring with women. For those of you that are new readers, I'd like to introduce myself. I'm Don Diebel, one of the nation's leading experts on dating and relationships, guest speaker on several TV and radio shows, featured in print interviews, dating consultant, and have helped thousands of men win at the game of love with my phenomenal best-sellers, "How to Pick Up Women in Discos," " The Complete Guide to Meeting Women," " 100 Places to Take a Date," The Houston Entertainment and Dating Guide," " How to Pick Up Topless Dancers" and " 1001 Best Pick-Up Lines."

Also, I am President and owner of Gemini Publishing Co. which specializes in books, cassettes, videos, and pheromone products on how to succeed with women since 1978. Our website is located at: http://www.getgirls.com

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Are you aware that you're hurting your chances at finding love with single women when you get down on yourself and get depressed because your love life has been real slow or your love life has come to a complete halt for quite some time?

Guys, we all experience what I call "droughts" in our love life. It's part of the dating game and nothing to get depressed about because you never know when that special lady you've been dreaming about will appear in your life. It can happen quite suddenly and then you won't be depressed anymore.

Don't let your mind play tricks on you by thinking that just because you haven't found any good single female prospects for love and romance, that things are getting worse and you'll never find anyone. These are just feelings with no merit because a new love can come into your life tomorrow and if you're too frustrated and depressed you won't even notice her.

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When you attend seminars and you find someone in the audience that you are attracted to, say this during the break: "What do you think of the seminar so far?"

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Today we are going to focus on love. It's an important subject because without love in your life, life can be very empty and unfulfilling.

I believe that the more you know about love the easier it will be to put more love into your life. So, I want you to take this Love Quiz developed by one of the top psychologists in America, Dr. Joyce Brothers. This quiz will help you distinguish love facts from love fiction.

Are you ready to test your knowledge about love? Let's do it! What I want you to do is print this page and check off your answer to each question as fact or fiction. Then after you do this, look for the instructions at the end of this article on how to check your answers.

Let' get started, here's the Fact or Fiction Love Quiz:

FACT OR FICTION LOVE QUIZ

A man or woman will experience only one true love in life. ___Fact ___Fiction?

When you are deeply and truly in love, it absorbs all your energies and thoughts. ___Fact ___Fiction?

If someone loves you, he or she will never exploit you. ___Fact ___Fiction?

Women's love needs are different from men's. ___Fact ___Fiction?

Men have a greater capacity for true love than women do. ___Fact ___Fiction?

Everyone has the ability to fall in love. ___Fact ___Fiction?

Hate is the opposite of love. ___ Fact ___Fiction?

Most people fall in love with someone who reminds them of their parent of the opposite sex. ___Fact ___Fiction?

Men are more interested in sex than in love. ___Fact ___Fiction?

When you are in love, you understand the person you love completely. ___Fact ___Fiction?

Men handle serious love problems better than women do. ___Fact ___Fiction?

If you will just wait, you are bound to find the partner of your dreams. ___Fact ___Fiction?

Here are the answers to the Fact or Fiction Love Quiz:

FICTION. If a man or woman is capable of loving another person, he or she has the capacity to love many times and many people. This is why widows and widowers can have happy marriages. And there are many kinds of love. Parents love all their children, not just one.

FICTION. Love acts to expand your capacities and increase your drive and energy. It stimulates the imagination and makes people more eager to achieve.

FICTION. Love often involves exploitation. A man may love a woman and yet take advantage of her love for him to ask that she put his interests first and subordinate her desires or career to his.

FICTION. Both men and women need to be desired, admired, and assured of the other's love.

FICTION. Studies show that women have an infinitely greater capacity to love than men do.

FICTION. Some people cannot love. Some have deep-seated emotional blocks that do not permit them to love. Others are too self-centered to give love.

FICTION. If there were an opposite to love, the closest thing would be indifference. The fact is that love and hate are very closely related. It is quite normal for people to have occasional flashes of hatred for the person they love.

FICTION. We used to believe this, but research has demonstrated that both men and women tend to seek a mate who has the best qualities of their mother.

FICTION. A recent survey of more than four thousand men found that more than a third of them believed that love was the most important thing in life and another third were convinced that love made sex better.

FICTION. The more deeply in love you are, the worse your judgment is about the character and temperament of the person you love. The old saying that "love is blind" has a lot of truth in it.

FICTION. Women seem to cope better with disappointment in love than men. Three times as many men as women commit suicide because of unhappy love affairs.

FICTION. Very few men and women ever find the partner of their dreams. The person we fall in love with is usually completely different from our picture of the ideal husband or wife.

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