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First of all, I want to wish all my subscribers a happy and properous New Year. Also, I want to wish you much success with women in 1999. And to help you achieve that goal, I am featuring a goal-setting system that works like magic to score with women, for my tips of the week.

Welcome to The Don Diebel Succeed with Women Newsletter - Your source to succeeding with women and filling your life with love, intimacy, and romance. Each weekly issue is dedicated to helping you do better with the opposite sex, get more dates, improve your dating relationships, overcome shyness, and most importantly help you meet, attract, and seduce women. Also, I will keep you up-to-date on the latest methods and techniques to score with women.

We are pleased that many new subscribers have recently joined us for help in scoring with women. For those of you that are new readers, I'd like to introduce myself. I'm Don Diebel, one of the nation's leading experts on dating and relationships, guest speaker on several TV and radio shows, featured in print interviews, dating consultant, and have helped thousands of men win at the game of love with my phenomenal best-sellers, "How to Pick Up Women in Discos," " The Complete Guide to Meeting Women," " 100 Places to Take a Date," The Houston Entertainment and Dating Guide," " How to Pick Up Topless Dancers" and " 1001 Best Pick-Up Lines."

Also, I am President and owner of Gemini Publishing Co. which specializes in books, cassettes, and videos on how to succeed with women since 1978. Our website is located at: http://www.getgirls.com

1) "Dating Tips of the Week" article for meeting, attracting, and seducing women.
2) Four FREE chapters from the best-seller, "A Man's Guide to Women."
3) FREE book on how to select a dating service.
4) Pick-Up Line of the Week
5) Article from our "Dating Tips of the Week Archive" on how to score with women.
6) Enter our contest for a FREE book on succeeding with women.
7) Four FREE chapters from, "The Complete Guide to Meeting Women."
8) New products to help you score with women.

Goal Setting System for Scoring With Women:

Goal-setting is a powerful system in getting what you want, and this is, scoring with hot & sexy beautiful women. "As you think, so you become." If you focus on a goal with determination, backed with a burning desire, you'll experience it. Setting a goal to meet and pick up women is acknowledging to your conscious and subconscious minds that where you stand as far as scoring with women is not where you want to be. Having a goal creates positive pressure on yourself, which is necessary to move you forward and motivate you to pick up women.

Now, I will explain the following steps to goal-setting to meet and pick up women.

Step 1- The first step in goal-setting is desire. Desire is the great motivator, the powerful force that drives you toward your goal.

Step 2- The second step is belief - you must believe with all your heart and no doubts that you have the ability to achieve your goal.

Step 3 - The third and most important step is to write your goal of meeting and picking up women in complete detail, exactly as you wish to have it. Until your goal is committed to paper by you, it is not a goal; it is simply a wish backed by perhaps a lot of sexual fantasies.

Step 4 - The forth step is to determine all the benefits you will receive by achieving your goals of scoring with women. Write out on paper all the benefits you will enjoy by accomplishing your goal. You should really enjoy this step. Just let your imagination run wild and put it on paper.

Step 5 - Step number five is to set a deadline- decide exactly when you are going to accomplish your goal of picking up women and put it on paper.

Step 6 - Step number six is to identify the obstacles you will have to overcome to achieve your goal of picking up women. You will discover that any major obstacles lingering in your mind and preventing you from picking up women will become small when you write them down on paper.

Step 7 - Step number seven is to clearly define the knowledge you need to learn in order to accomplish your goal. All the knowledge you need for meeting, attracting and seducing women is right in my tips of week archive located at: http://www.getgirls.com/archive.htm - Study it and put it into action. Also, our books at our website will help you gain all the knowledge you need.

Step 8 - Step number eight is to take all the details that you have identified in step 6 and 7 and make a plan. Be sure and make it complete in every little detail, with all the things you need to do to accomplish your goal.

Step 9 - Step number nine is to get a clear mental picture of your goal as already attained. Picture in your mind over and over seeing yourself scoring and picking up women. Just let your imagination run wild. Become completely obsessed with picking up women in your mind.

Step 10 - Your final step is to back your plan with determination, persistence, and a burning desire to never, never give up until you have achieved your goal.

Here's an example of a written goal:

By ___________(insert date) I will pick up and score with a hot & sexy beautiful woman. I am now going out often and pursuing a relationship with women by every means possible until this goal is accomplished. I'm now taking action when I see an opportunity to pick up a woman. When I go to clubs now, I don't just sit there being passive and just watch other men meet and pick up women. I'm aggressive with women now and move into action quickly and easily. It is extremely easy now for me to meet and talk with women, get their phone number, date, seduce and become intimate with women.

Signed___________(your name) Date ____________

This is just an example of what to write for your goal. You can write whatever you want, this is just a guideline. This is very important. Write your goal on a 8 1/2 x 11 piece of paper, preferably blank with no lines. Now, you need to get copies of the popular womens' magazines featuring pretty women. Cut out pictures of the pretty models and paste them all around your written goal. When reading your goal look at these pictures and visualize yourself picking up women.

Looking at these pictures will work on your subconscious mind and motivate you to reach your goal. Read your goal and look at the photos twice daily. Once when you get up in the morning and once when you go to bed. These are the best times to do this because your subconscious mind is more receptive to suggestions at this time.

Additional Tips To Help You Achieve Your Goals

1. Focus all of your attention, desire and energy in accomplishing your goal at hand. Forget completely about any consequences of failure with women. Remember that you usually get what you think about most.

2. When you start on your goal, concentrate all of your energy without any distractions on the successful completion of your goal. Make reaching your goal an all-consuming obsession.

3. Develop a self-talk vocabulary to reach your goal of scoring with dancers. Make it a habit to repeat again and again to yourself, "I want to - I can" in regards to scoring with women.

4. Substitute the word "Try" with the word "Will" in your vocabulary associated with scoring with women. This is a form of semantics and creates a new attitude of concentrating on things that you "Will do," instead of things you plan to "Try," with a built-in excuse in advance for possible failure.

5. Substitute the word "Can't" with the word "Can" in your daily vocabulary too. Always tell yourself you "Can" do things you set your mind to.

In conclusion, set your goals and go for it! Happy Hunting!

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PICK-UP LINE OF THE WEEK
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"I had a dream last night about you. I dreamed you and I had a candlelight dinner at my place. Will you help me make that dream come true?"

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ARTICLE FROM OUR "Dating Tips of the Week ARCHIVE"
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I highly recommend that you play the personals for dating, love, intimacy, and romance. And when you answer a woman's ad for the first time here's a great letter to use. Just edit it to use for yourself. This letter will really make a good impression on single women and make her want to write you back. Try it, it works!:

Dear...

Let's become good friends, then...Hope for a beautiful relationship.

I feel that before we can have a good relationship, we must put forth the energy and time it takes to first become good friends. Friendship is one of the most important building blocks of a good relationship. To me, friends are like flowers in the garden of life.

My desire is to meet a beautiful, sensitive, sensuous, warm, assertive single lady who wants a friend. My interpretation of a friend is one to whom you can pour out all the contents of your heart, chaff and grain together, knowing that the gentleness of hands will take it all, sift it, keep that which is worth keeping and, with a breath of kindness, blow the rest away. I thank you in advance for allowing me to be that kind of friend to you.

If you feel it would be good for us to meet, write and tell me more about yourself. And please have good thoughts about our further relationship, for thoughts are like seeds. All the flowers of all the tomorrows are in the seed of today.

Let me tell you about myself. I am divorced (five years ago), Caucasian, dark brown hair, blue eyes, 6' 3", trim 175 lbs., clean-cut and a healthy gentleman. I am self-sufficient, handsome, self-employed (businessman), happy, secure, self-confident, psychologically aware, emotionally and financially secure.

I love poetry, books, walks on the beach and cozy candlelight dinners. I enjoy movies, television, music, traveling, the desert, the quietness of the mountains, the ocean, sunrises and sunsets.

I am comfortable in jeans or a nice Italian suit. A nonsmoker/drinker, not into drugs (don't need them; I live in a natural high). I believe in enjoying the good life and am high on it. I have a healthy attitude about God and the Bible.

I am not a game player. I never want personal happiness at the expense of someone else. If we have a single date or a lifetime together, I will never lie to you, try to manipulate you or use you in any way. I am an incurable romantic who treasures, cherishes and appreciates sincerity, integrity, honesty and warmth. I enjoy picnics, laughing, talking, touching, affection and physical closeness. A good listener who enjoys mutual spoiling and also I am a one-woman man.

I am looking for a special, loving relationship with a unique lady who is affectionate, beautiful, slender, with a shapely figure, sincere, easygoing, with interests and characteristics similar to mine...someone who wants a meaningful, serious, long-term relationship...not just a few dates. Are you that special lady?

All it will take to find out whether or not things might work between you and me is a 32-cent stamp and five minutes of your time to write me a letter. Physical attraction to me is as important as the other things I have mentioned. Please send a recent photo (not over one year old) of yourself. I will send my recent photo when I answer your letter. I would also appreciate you sending your phone number.

Well, what do you think? Isn't this a great letter! You could also use this for online personals too. The next step is up to you...Try the personals, they sure worked for me!

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MONTHLY CONTEST TO WIN FREE BOOKS
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"Where to Meet Women" Contest

Send us the best places to successfully meet and attract women (where they are and what you did to take advantage of the best places to meet and attract women and where you go to get the most dates . We'll pick the best ones to publish on our web site (we will not publish your name) and award the lucky winner any book listed in our catalog at: http://www.getgirls.com/catalog.htm absolutely FREE! Please send your story by e-mail to getgirls@getgirls.com or by snail mail to: Attn: Contest Dept., Gemini Publishing Company, 14010 El Camino Real, Suite 200, Houston, TX 77062 (don't forget to include your e-mail address). Be sure and visit: http://www.getgirls.com/gdbkchap.htm - for four FREE chapters from one of our best-sellers called, "The Complete Guide to Meeting Women." This is probably the best book ever written on how to meet, attract, date, and seduce hot & sexy beautiful single women.

World renowned relationship expert, Alex Stone has just produced four of the most amazing videos on how to succeed with women ever made! Divided into four categories and titles, each of these full-length videos is a book in itself. These girl-getting videos are called:

"Become the Man Women Desire"
"Opening Lines and Conversation Starters"
"The Woman of Your Dreams is Not in a Bar"
"The Right Look Can Change Your Life"

These videos are a "crash course" method in learning the art of seducing women and by following the simple step-by-step instructions you can have any woman you desire. To learn more about these new videos please visit: http://www.getgirls.com/videos.htm

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Pre-publication Offer for My New Book, "1001 Best Pick-Up Lines"
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My latest brand new book called, "1001 Best Pick-Up Lines" by Don Diebel has just come in from the printer. This is the first printing and will not officially go on sale until January 1999. Here's a brief description:

It's all here! The secrets to talking to women and 1001 perfect pick-up lines to use for any situation or encounter with women to successfully meet, attract, and even seduce any woman you desire. Plus you get a 17 page bonus section on the art of conversation with women. This tells-all book will be featured in the Playboy Catalog next year also.

Here's my pre-publication offer: I will autograph your copy and give you free shipping. This is a limited time offer and it expires January 1, 1999.

The book sells for $14.95 and the item number is #050. You can use our order forms at: http://www.getgirls.com - You may also use our 24 hour order line at 281-488-6866. Be sure and mention that shipping is free and request an autographed copy.

For those of you that don't have internet access, mail your check or money order to: Gemini Publishing Co., 14010 El Camino Real, Suite 200, Houston, TX 77062.

P.S - I promise that I will never sell or share your e-mail address with anyone!

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