Dear Friends and Subscribers,
Let's talk about the negative emotion of envy and jealousy.
Do you have a male friend who you are jealous of who is always scoring with the women while you're always striking out or just standing on the sidelines watching him take all the action?
And you're so envious of him getting all the girls that it's eating you up on the inside? You keep saying to yourself, "Some guys have all the luck" and you just wallow around in your own self-pity feeling sorry for yourself.
What should you do? Here's what I recommend:
1. First of all, congratulate your friend for all his successes with women. Don't be jealous, just give him a pat on the back and commend him for having the balls to take aggressive action to meet, attract, and seduce single women.
2. This is the most important tip: Determine what specific actions he took to succeed with women and duplicate them for yourself. If he can succeed with his methods and techniques, so can you. Just copy his techniques and methods to score with women.
3. Pick his brains and have him tell you his secrets to success with single women. Have him coach you and motivate you. If possible, work as a team to meet women. This will also help to build your confidence.
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Welcome to The Don Diebel Succeed with Women Newsletter - Your source to succeeding with women and filling your life with love, intimacy, and romance. Each weekly issue is dedicated to helping you do better with the opposite sex, get more dates, improve your dating relationships, overcome shyness, and most importantly help you meet, attract, and seduce women. Also, I will keep you up-to-date on the latest methods and techniques to score with women.
We are pleased that many new subscribers have recently joined us for help in scoring with women. For those of you that are new readers, I'd like to introduce myself. I'm Don Diebel, one of the nation's leading experts on dating and relationships, guest speaker on several TV and radio shows, featured in print interviews, dating consultant, and have helped thousands of men win at the game of love with my phenomenal best-sellers, "How to Pick Up Women in Discos," " The Complete Guide to Meeting Women," " 100 Places to Take a Date," The Houston Entertainment and Dating Guide," " How to Pick Up Topless Dancers" and " 1001 Best Pick-Up Lines."
Also, I am President and owner of Gemini Publishing Co. which specializes in books, cassettes, videos, and pheromone products on how to succeed with women since 1978. Our website is located at: http://www.getgirls.com
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Probably the biggest mistake that men make in understanding single women is underestimating just how important sex is to single women. It is easy to see, however, how men would fail to recognize sex as being a major motivation to single women.
It has always been socially acceptable for men to desire sex, and even to be open to others about their desires. It has been frowned upon for years, however, for single women to discuss or admit to sexual desires. A single woman who lusted for sex was considered a whore or a slut. Single women were even afraid to admit to themselves that they had desires because of feelings of guilt that society heaped upon them.
Thus the single female sexual desire is not something that has been talked about openly, and for this reason men have been lulled into thinking that since it is not talked about much, it must not be a very strong motive in single women.
The fact of the matter is that female sexual desire does exist. And, it exists in single women every bit as strongly as it exists in men. We will go so far as to say that the real, unspoken motive being the women's movement was sexual freedom. Not freedom to have sex necessarily, but that it is okay for women to admit that they enjoy it, and want it, and have it with more than one man if they want. The women's movement was saying, "Hey, we enjoy sex just as much as men do, and that shouldn't be a sin. We are tired of the double standard."
And that is what has happened. Single women now realize that it's okay to enjoy sex and they are out looking for it. Sex is something that single women can enjoy too - not just a dutiful obligation to a male dominated society.
Single women are far more discriminating than men are concerning sex. They desire sex as much as men do, but whereas men will often have sex with anyone, single women are looking for someone special. They are passing up sex with just anyone to wait for someone to come along who they deem to be that special guy. Single women today not only want sex, they want good sex. And as far as single women are concerned, whether or not the sex they have is good is the responsibility of the man. We, as men, are the first ones to point out that this fact is unfair, but also the first to point out that it is a reality that we all have to live with.
The next time you are trying to figure out a single woman's actions, just suppose that she is as motivated and swayed in her behavior by sexual desire as you are. Time and again, men ask us, "Why did she go for him? He doesn't have nearly as much going for him as I do." The answer is simple: She was more sexually attracted to him than you. And that is it in a nutshell. Single women are choosing men just like men choose women - by sexual attraction. If a woman is interested in you it is your sex appeal that got your foot in the door, and now good sex will help keep you there.
Sex is a very powerful aspect of relationships. This is not to say sex is the total element of a relationship, but we are saying that it plays a larger role than people like to admit. Single women, just like men, will want to meet someone or start a relationship with someone if they find that person sexually attractive. And, as the relationship continues, good sex is often the strongest glue that holds the two people together.
If it were possible to take an objective survey, we wouldn't be surprised if the results concluded that many break-ups today stem from sexual dissatisfaction or sexual boredom, and that partners leave the relationship because they are looking for something better.
More specifically, exciting sexual experiences. Single women are leaving relationships because of this more so today than ever before. And what does all of this mean? What is the point of this all boiled down to one sentence? If you want to be successful with single women, you'd better know how to keep her sexually satisfied.
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PICK-UP LINE OF THE WEEK
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"Weren't you on the cover of Cosmo?"
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ARTICLE FROM OUR "Dating Tips of the Week ARCHIVE"
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As you probably know, men and women's sex drives are different. Men are ready to have sex at anytime and don't really have to wait to be in the mood for sex.
Single women's sex drive is much more complicated and her moods are subject to change.
If you know when she's more likely to be in the mood for sex, you can use this to your advantage to seduce single women for some really "hot and passionate" sex.
All you have to know is when her menstrual period begins and when it is about to start. Let me explain why:
Researchers have discovered that a woman's sex drive is strongest on the sixth and seventh day after her period begins. Also, another time when her sexual appetite peaks is the three days just before she starts her menstrual period.
So, my friend, it would be to your advantage to monitor the menstrual
cycle of the woman you're with so you'll know when she's mostly likely
to be horny and receptive to your sexual advances and when she is most
likely to turn into a sexual volcano, ready to explode!
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