Single women love to dance and you can use this to your advantage. Here's a few techniques you help you successfully make single women desire you while dancing:
If you don't dance you'd better learn, because most single women go to a nightclub to dance and have a good time. You don't have to invest a lot of money in private dancing lessons either. Many cities offer inexpensive dance classes with groups, or perhaps you have a female friend who will teach you.
You don't have to learn anything real fancy. Just basic free-style nightclub dance steps will be sufficient. Besides, in a lot of nightclubs the dance floor is so crowded there's just not enough room to do any of the sophisticated nightclub dance steps, especially on the weekend.
When approaching a woman to ask her to dance, whatever you do don't fondle her, paw at her body, or put your arm around her shoulders or waist. This turns most women off when a stranger starts pawing at her body. It degrades her and makes her feel like a piece of meat in a meat market. Just simply walk up next to her and say with a smile, "Would you like to dance?" If she says no, just say, "OK." You might also say, "Thanks anyway" or even better, "How about later?" Don't stand there and aggravate her by arguing with her as to why she won't dance with you. Just go on to the next girl and so on until you find someone to dance with.
Also, look for a woman tapping her feet or moving her body to the beat of the music. This usually means that she is anxious to dance. If she's dancing with herself while standing, this also means she's dying to dance.
Don't forget to dance to the slow songs, even though they don't play too many at the nightclubs. Don't pass up these good opportunities to get some instant physical contact with a woman.
So now you're out on the dance floor dancing to a fast song. While you're dancing with her, make eye contact. Just catch her eye and hold it momentarily, then look away. Repeat this process until you start getting a smile out of her or at least a look of interest. Of course, now some women won't look at you while you're dancing. They don't focus their eyes on anyone in particular and look at their feet, or the floor, or they're busy trying to show off in front of everyone else. Some women are self-conscious about everybody watching them, so they don't make much eye contact. Anyway, try to establish as much eye contact as possible. This will be to your advantage.
While you're dancing this first dance together, be sure and make some verbal contact no matter how loud the music is. The first thing you should say is, "What's your name?" After she tells you her name tell her yours. Now you have become formally introduced, just by dancing. Also, make a comment on how nice she looks or compliment her outfit or dress.
So now this first song is coming to an end. When it ends don't hesitate and look at her to see if she wants to dance to the next song. Just turn away from her while continuing to dance and look at her out of the corner of your eye to see what she is going to do. You see, by hesitating at the end of a song, you force a direct confrontation on whether to dance to the next song. If you just keep on dancing into the next song, taking it for granted that she wants to dance again, you'll be more successful in keeping her out on the dance floor. The longer you dance with her the better your chances of getting to know her.
Now we get to the part when you finish dancing. This will usually end in these following ways:
This is very important! After you have finished dancing whatever you do, don't let her get away after thanking you for the dance. Just simply say, "Can I join you for a drink?" Also, you could say, "Can I talk to you about something?" After this statement, she will say,"Talk about what?" Then you say, I'll tell you when we sit down." After this, just start making conversation. Also, if she doesn't have a table and she is just standing like yourself, just say, "Can I talk to you for a little while?"
So, what you do after you finish dancing can determine the future of your whole night and whether you're going to score or not. What I can't figure out is these guys that dance with a woman and don't even look at or talk to her while they are dancing and when they finish, he says, "Thanks" and just walks away. Needless to say, you don't meet any single women this way.
So when you have finished dancing, move right in for the kill. Don't even hesitate, just proceed immediately with determination that you're going to make contact with this woman.
Let me give you a few pointers if you're slow-dancing and by all means try to dance to every slow dance because of the physical contact involved.
As in fast dancing, immediately start introduction procedures. Open up by saying, "My name is ___________. What's yours?"
When slow-dancing try to hold her as close to your body as possible. Gently now! Don't squeeze her like an octopus. When moving your right leg, gently brush her inner thighs. While dancing, gently squeeze her hand and see if you get any response. If you do, continue with the next step. Start rubbing her back with your hand. At this point if she starts rubbing your shoulders, neck, or chest and starts grinding her crotch against yours, you're on your way. At this stage of the game it's time to try and kiss her. Begin kissing her neck and work your way up to behind the ear, then the ear lobe, then kiss her on the lips. If you've gotten this far, chances are you're going to score tonight, if not later for sure.
If you have tried all these moves and you do not get any response, don't be concerned about it. Some single women are reluctant to show any affection towards a total stranger. This is quite common, so don't jump to conclusions thinking that she's cold or not interested in you.
Whatever you do, don't give up on a woman who does not respond to your physical advances while slow-dancing. Just follow up with your conversational skills and get to know her better and get her to like you. Perhaps then she will loosen up when she gets to know you a little better and becomes interested in you. If you employ good pick-up techniques, you shouldn't have any problems.
